Well folks, I never thought it would happen, but it has.
Far from being dead and buried, it turns out that my marriage is on a whole new track.
CH has been making major changes in his attitude, behaviour, life… you name it, he’s changing it.
And, as a wise woman friend said to me this week, it looks like we have a chance at actually being happily married. Something that I truly don’t believe we ever were before.
Something just snapped in me. Much as it did 6 months ago, when I realised that I didn’t know if I loved him any more.
And I cannot tell you how happy I am. CH is like a different person to how he’s been this last 7 years or so. It’s as if he shed a skin of tension and coldness, and has donned a new, soft garment of warmth, love and affection. I see new attractiveness in him, and we are working closely towards a complete overhaul of our relationship, eventually culminating in a total renewal of our sex life so that it exceeds all my precious expectations… (glass dildos notwithstanding).
Minx-people, I haven’t felt so happy and at peace in a very very long time. I feel my minxiosity expanding to new horizons.